Sunday, June 18, 2006

遺忘的父親節

樹欲靜而風不止
子欲養而親不在

這句諺語,在很多很多年前,就讀過了,但從沒有多大的感觸。
而如今記起這句話時,感觸很深很深,而心中的遺憾是永遠也法彌補了。

沒有刻意去記今天是父親節,是在迴避心中的痛嗎?抑或是沒必要去記得呢?也許,記得了對我來說,也無用處吧?

爸爸離開我們已快八年了,就算記得父親節,也只是增添心中的遺憾而已。那倒不如忘記。

沒有失去過至親的人,就不會明白那一種痛與遺憾。

所以,想告訴所有朋友們,若身邊的父母親還健在,要好好孝順他們,要不然,一定會像我一樣後悔。

以前沒能力幫他慶祝,直到有能力時,又沒機會替他慶祝。唉,這是我的無奈。所以我才明白,其實只要有“心”,不管怎樣慶祝,那已很足夠了。

無論多不想記起,今天還是父親節,所以,我還是一樣祝我爸爸,父親節快樂。
也祝天下父親們,快樂。

遊子們,就打一通電話回家吧。

7 Comments:

At 20/6/06 11:35 am, Anonymous ahkheng said...

爸爸?在世?,我???不曾?祝父??。
????流逝,我?都?大了,想要???已??不及了。
所以,我和妹妹都不????祝母??,因?不想以后造成?憾。

 
At 11/7/06 10:54 am, Blogger 蝶林 said...

ahkheng ~ 嗯,我們家人也是一樣,至今,每年的母親節或媽媽的生日,我們都一定聚在一起慶祝。

 
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